��Soul Flow��

  

“Let Go & Relax!  Go with the flow of your Soul!”

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We
aren’t here to live this life in the seriousness of constant struggle,
pain & suffering.  We’re here to live a life of joy, fun, laughter,
& love!

So what is it that has made it so darned complicated?

Since
when did the choice to be right overtake the choice to be happy or to
love one another versus competing & putting them down?

The
US was founded upon the Freedom to choose – in all aspects of life! 
Albeit, there are many historical events we will never know & some
brought to our attention were not what we’d been originally told only to
learn history is altered to protect people’s interests. 

Why all the lies, the deceit, & distrust?

Who can we trust?  
Why do we resist what we know in the deepest parts of our beings?

Let’s
not regret our choices by placing the focus on what we think we should
do or have been conditioned to believe is the right way/path to follow!

“Those that fail to learn from history, are doomed to repeat it.”

~ Winston Churchill

We
want to Free our Ancestors from their mistakes – they were unable to
change their choices & provided plenty of examples of regret &
remorse for them… Let’s not finish this life with regret for what we
wished we had done & just do it!

Don’t
you want to make them proud by making a better life for yourself as
they would want for you!?  
To build a the life that they had actually
hoped for themselves but lost sight of by being caught in the trap of
old paradigms & ways of thinking!?

Wind it down – the Mind! Pay it no mind… Unravel & Unwind the Mind!

If you’re meant to be somewhere, do or have something, you’ll arrive to it in perfect time!

~*♥*~
 
Return to who you are & Remember what it feels like to be in Joy!

May you wash away lifetimes of legacy for generations to come…

Free Yourself to be You & Free us all to Be United as One!

~*♥*~

Love & Light Blessings!

~*♥*~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

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����How People Connect����

💫🌟How People Connect🌟💫

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Do you like me for me, what I can do for you, what I represent, or how I make you feel?

In any case, there’s no denying we like people for how they make us feel!

Sometimes
it's to feel a connection or to be validated for beliefs we may
similarly hold but sometimes it's superficial in belonging to a clique,
association, group, team, political party, movement, passion, etc... but
what draws us to those things? 

They're
not who we are but part of what we've accustomed to or always known or
done - sometimes something you were introduced to via family like a
sports team or a political party or school alma mater.  It’s out of
routine & comfort we steer toward these arenas.

This
is the major reason many of us need to peel back layers in our lives to
challenge our beliefs, habits, routines, & lifestyles. 


Do these things truly represent who I am on the inside?


 

Do
I like the people I associate with or do they simply provide an
escapism from the life I'm living but also find myself unhappy with
while still seeking something I still haven't grasped?

Am I simply looking to change things up to avoid going within to confront myself & any unresolved painful memories?

We’re
all going to have our attachments to certain beliefs but the key is
finding neutrality where you don’t feel the need to defend your beliefs
to anyone else & to honor & respect another’s beliefs that may
differ from yours.  

Stop looking for the argument or attack of shaming another, let alone yourself for the sole purpose of elevating your Ego!

Wars are based on trying to impose one set of ideals upon an opposing group. 

Have you seen how that plays out?

A clue to it is ~~>     Have you ever seen a war that was “won?”  

No,
because it’s a continuous fight for people to overpower others by
imposing their beliefs upon them.  To dishonor, take power over, &
try to force people into taking on the same beliefs. 

Nobody wants this done to them so, why do we do it to others?

There is no such thing as a war that has been won!

I’ve heard people mock the statement “Why can’t we all just get along!?”

Because
the Ego is strong!  Rarely does a person know themselves well enough to
even consider what is right for another person but funny enough, we
have all been raised in way to take care of thy neighbor as if we should
only ever think of others & then, we project ourselves
(experiences, beliefs, & ideals) upon them to top it off.

~*♥*~
💞 First you must learn Who You Are & What Drives You! 💞
Let that be your motivator & watch how you interact with people;
as well as, the tribe you feel you belong to.
~*♥*~
Love & Light Blessings!
~*♥*~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

Watch more here in my Video Blog:
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������ The Commitment to Change ������

💫🌟🌼 The Commitment to Change 🌻🌟💫

Change takes Commitment ~ Dedication & Devotion to Self

Watch more here in my Video Blog:
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In any situation where you desire to have a certain experience, you also need to commit to it no matter how subtle it is.

We
commit to our daily routines & habits unconsciously so in order to
make changes that stick we need to consciously commit to & be
dedicated to working toward them!

Want something?

How badly?

You
have to want it enough to go through a complete metamorphosis where you
challenge your own beliefs about what you feel is attainable & what
you deserve (often we subconsciously or unconsciously don't feel we
deserve the one thing we want or desire). This often keeps us stuck in
self-doubt & fear of even trying.

“In order to succeed, your desire for success needs to be greater than your fear of failure.”

Meaning your Desires must far outweigh what you perceive & fear to loose!

We have all “surprised” ourselves with attaining, what we once believed, was unattainable at some point in our lives...

Don’t
give up before the miracle because if you’re working toward something
that has taken a lot of time & has emotionally drained you, it
typically comes to a head just before it comes to fruition…

Your own physical body can get antsy as does the mind as you want things immediately in your own time…

Have Patience
It’s natural to feel like you’re “loosing it” as you near attaining your desires...

I’ve
felt antsy prior to something I’ve been also been extremely excited
about ~ what was excitement turns into anxiety & questioning
myself.  But ultimately, that’s the inner fear of the unknown, of what
it all will bring, sensing the unknown change on the horizon ….how
things will unfold!

In
the end, you have to commit to yourself… be willing to let go of your
attachment to the idea of how you expect & want things to be or look
like but to hold a vision with flexibility of how it will unfold!

Words require conscious action
& not to be thrown around in a laissez fair manner … Remember they
carry energy & if you aren’t intentional with your words, it’s
likely you will fail to follow through with action.

Choose your words carefully & be consciously aware of your thoughts because this is when Integrity & Character come into question.

It's how much a person can be Respected for their Word! Trust!
Can you be trusted?
If you don't own your stuff, how do you expect to treat you?
Better yet, do you trust yourself?

Nobody wants to be called a liar but that’s essentially what happens when our words & actions aren’t aligned!

Clear
Communication eliminates the resentment & assumptions that come
up…  It takes nothing to say you are unable to fulfill your promise...
it’s tougher to avoid the confrontation of not fulfilling that promise
later when you avoid it all together.

Again, your Desires must be greater than your perception of what you might fear to loose!

Maybe you don’t know what you want but you need to own it, search within for it, & when you do know, make it a priority!

Remember Change is Constant
& you have the opportunity to choose for yourself what changes
occur in your life or put it up to chance waiting around to see what
changes are forced upon you in the end!  I can only say from personal experience, the changes I have had to make were always easier than the ones I was forced to make.

Confront the situation before it confronts you!

~*♥*~
💞 Become Devoted to You! 💞
~*♥*~
Love & Light Blessings!
~*♥*~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

Watch more here in my Video Blog:
https://youtu.be/cnb_Ki02y_Q

������ The Commitment to Change ������

💫🌟🌼 The Commitment to Change 🌻🌟💫

Change takes Commitment ~ Dedication & Devotion to Self

Watch more here in my Video Blog:
https://youtu.be/cnb_Ki02y_Q

In any situation where you desire to have a certain experience, you also need to commit to it no matter how subtle it is.

We
commit to our daily routines & habits unconsciously so in order to
make changes that stick we need to consciously commit to & be
dedicated to working toward them!

Want something?

How badly?

You
have to want it enough to go through a complete metamorphosis where you
challenge your own beliefs about what you feel is attainable & what
you deserve (often we subconsciously or unconsciously don't feel we
deserve the one thing we want or desire). This often keeps us stuck in
self-doubt & fear of even trying.

 

“In order to succeed, your desire for success needs to be greater than your fear of failure.”

Meaning your Desires must far outweigh what you perceive & fear to loose!

We have all “surprised” ourselves with attaining, what we once believed, was unattainable at some point in our lives...

Don’t
give up before the miracle because if you’re working toward something
that has taken a lot of time & has emotionally drained you, it
typically comes to a head just before it comes to fruition…

Your own physical body can get antsy as does the mind as you want things immediately in your own time…

Have Patience
It’s natural to feel like you’re “loosing it” as you near attaining your desires...

I’ve
felt antsy prior to something I’ve been also been extremely excited
about ~ what was excitement turns into anxiety & questioning
myself.  But ultimately, that’s the inner fear of the unknown, of what
it all will bring, sensing the unknown change on the horizon ….how
things will unfold!

In
the end, you have to commit to yourself… be willing to let go of your
attachment to the idea of how you expect & want things to be or look
like but to hold a vision with flexibility of how it will unfold!

Words require conscious action
& not to be thrown around in a laissez fair manner … Remember they
carry energy & if you aren’t intentional with your words, it’s
likely you will fail to follow through with action.

Choose your words carefully & be consciously aware of your thoughts because this is when Integrity & Character come into question. 

It's how much a person can be Respected for their Word! Trust!

 
Can you be trusted?
If you don't own your stuff, how do you expect to treat you?
Better yet, do you trust yourself?

Nobody wants to be called a liar but that’s essentially what happens when our words & actions aren’t aligned!

Clear
Communication eliminates the resentment & assumptions that come
up…  It takes nothing to say you are unable to fulfill your promise...
it’s tougher to avoid the confrontation of not fulfilling that promise
later when you avoid it all together. 

Again, your Desires must be greater than your perception of what you might fear to loose!

Maybe you don’t know what you want but you need to own it, search within for it, & when you do know, make it a priority!

Remember Change is Constant
& you have the opportunity to choose for yourself what changes
occur in your life or put it up to chance waiting around to see what
changes are forced upon you in the end!  I can only say from personal experience, the changes I have had to make were always easier than the ones I was forced to make.

 

Confront the situation before it confronts you!

~*♥*~
💞 Become Devoted to You! 💞
~*♥*~
Love & Light Blessings!
~*♥*~

~ ♥ Lana A. LaBonte ♥ ~

Watch more here in my Video Blog:
https://youtu.be/cnb_Ki02y_Q